Today in line at the store my mom, Patricia Davis Turner and I watched a young couple interact. They appeared to be maybe twenty years old. The young man kept "play" fighting with her and she "play" hit him back. And then they laughed. Then "just for fun and play" he took her phone and she giggled and "play" wanted it back while he "play" did not give it to her but scrolled through her phone and she giggled and "play" laughed it off as he continued scrolling until I guess he was satisfied. Then my mother turned to me and said, "Now he would never let her "play" with his phone like that. That's how it starts. As play.