What Jaha @ 40 would tell Jaha @ 30

1. Honor yourself in every relationship.
2. Pick your battles.
3. Pay close attention to your dreams.
4. Finish what you start.
5. Mean what you say and say it boldly.
6. So what if they don't like you.
7. You don't have to choose him because he chose you.
8. Have way more fun.
9. Don't take your life so seriously.
10. You don't have to have the last word. Say it once so that they hear you the first time.
11. Recycle.
12. It's ok not to know.
13. You are a leader. Don't be afraid of that.
14. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
15. Value your family and support system.
16. You are beautiful. Don't be afraid of that.
17. Know that you are powerful.
18. People listen when you speak. Respect that.
19. Listen.
20. Trust God. You don't need anyone elses approval.
21. Stay focused.
22. Drink more water.
23. If anyone tells you with their mouths or actions that they want to leave you, let them go.
24. Always tell the absolute truth in absolutely every situation.
25. So what if you look bad.
26. It's ok to make mistakes, learn from them.
27. Do the very best you can do.
28. Honor your meditation time.
29. It's not how many friends you have. It's the quality of your friendships.
30. It's ok to call the foul.
31. Don't be so judgemental. Others are doing the best they can with what they have and who they are. Hopefully.
32. Know that there is always light where you are. There is nowhere you can be that God is not.
33. Get your rest.
34. Respect and honor other peoples feelings.
35. It's ok to be alone. Find the joy in it.
36. Forty is not old.
37. Eat more vegetables.
38. Eat less bread, sugar, salt.
39. Maintain medical and dental checkups.
40. Be tactful.
41. Listen to and learn from valuable criticism about you without taking it as a personal attack.
42. Yes. You are worthy. Now stop asking the question over and over even if just in your mind.
43. Don't operate like someone will save you.
44. You don't have to do everything yourself. Use your support system.
45. Do not dim your light so that others can shine.
46. Notice that the people who have the most to say about what you should be doing are the people doing the least in their own lives.
47. God and you are the majority.