It's a process

Me: I'm gonna get a bike. You know? A cruiser with a big basket in the front. I don't care if it only has one gear.

C: You gonna wear all the biking gear too?

Me: No. Not till I lose some more weight. When I walk and stuff I like to wear regular clothes.

C: Why?

Me: Because one time I was all in my workout gear on the street and this brotha was all like 'Just keep going, Sis, you can make it.' And I know he was just trying to encourage me but I felt body shamed.

We laughed.